How would you take this

[zen511]

Backstory if it matters, 3rd date with my other current interest and we get on the topic of an event going on up in New England.

I more or less said something like we can make a day of it if we wanted, and she follows up we can actually make a whole weekend out of it if you wanted... Now we didnt get to much more thank making out at the end of the night. Does the suggesting spending a weekend together on her part intimate that sex is in the near future. I was trying to push it before I left but seemed to get mixed signals.

 

[zen511]

any1 have a take on this

 

[Maxtro]

Make a weekend out of it? How far is the event from where you live? Would it make sense to get a hotel for it?

 

[Rex Man]

Stop thinking so hard.
Girl want's to spend more time=Interest

We have no way of knowing what her sexual intentions are, but if I were to fancy a guess, I'd say you're in there like booty hair.

 

[zen511]

its a four hour drive each way. More or less NY to Philly, and yeah a hotel would be the logical thing.

 

[NickSCFC2000]

She might've just sensed you were a bit nervous in askin her to New England for the day and to calm your worries she replied with "Why not make a weekend of it"...

in other words "Course we can!", she's just saying that cause she really likes u. Up to u if ya have sex or not, it'll only be the 4th date if ya did so she wouldn't think less of u if u didn't want to have sex with her.

I'd get ready for the whole "DON'T U FIND ME ATTRACTIVE!!!" bs if you don't though

 

[zen511]

yeah, thats the way I took it myself. However, she has been busy with a deadline so I was not expecting much the last date. However, I keep getting mixed signals which is messing with my game. I am actually quite annoyed she did not return my call from the other day yet, but really have no right bc I know she is busy.

I guess I will just give it some more time and see if she calls.

 

[NickSCFC2000]

Sigh, always counter act a woman's mixed signals with mixed signals of your own. Ought to put an end to her silly games.

 

[Maxtro]

Ok if you are going to go with her and would like to make all the days of the event then getting a hotel is strongly recommended, for various reasons. Tell her it would be more cost and time effective instead of driving 4 hours each way for a couple of days. Get a room with two beds so you don't send the wrong image. But remember just because there are two beds doesn't mean both will get used :rockon:

 

[zen511]

ok makes sense, I am going to see how that reacts. So what kind of mixed signals should I use. Like when she calls just not return her call for a few days, or would it be better to like pass on her asking to go out... is that too extreme. I have been so neurotic lately, bc luckly I have ran into not one but two chicks that I could consider to be potential for LTR, although its early, so I have been trying to do things perfectly to maxamize my chances of things evolving with both.