"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How would you respond to this?

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Rubato

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You guys get millions of threads like this, so I apologize in advance for creating another one. I'm too tired and drunk tonight to think of anything to say beyond sending a copy and paste of my schedule and saying "pick something, *****".

Long story short - met an HB9 at the ballroom dance competition team practice. Want to fvck her. Have been gaming her pretty well IMO. Got this facebook message after dancing with her once tonight and blowing her off for the rest of the night:

Oh hello there. sooooo I have a question. I was wondering what your schedule was like and if ya might wanna help me outside of practices untill i get my partner. I feel..idk. I'm the kind of person who will cry when I get overly stressed/can't figure something out right away and I just don't want to do that. So let me know if you can help if not I UNDERSTAND lol. its ok trust me:)

Thanks!

As I have stated many times before, I am NOT looking for a relationship here. Read this message. The girl is obviously immature and probably crazy. But she's got an A+ body, blond hair, blue eyes and can move her hips like an angel.

Obviously, I want to get together with her. She basically asked me out on a date. What she also doesn't realize is that since I'm an officer, I'm one of the guys who assigns partners. The kids don't usually get to pick unless they're an advanced dancer and actually know what they're looking for in a partner. So she's waiting to be paired up with someone that I'm going to pick.

But there's not really anything else to say. I get IOI's from the girl, she walks in, gives me a huge hug, squeezes my hand when I squeeze hers, is comfortable with eye contact, let's me dance very close to her, laughs at everything I say, even when it's absolutely restarted (I think I've used the same lines on her multiple times and she's never done anything but laugh). No boyfriend. Just an immature 18 year old freshman.

How would you respond?
 

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Bad idea to mix work/hobby with a potential lady friend. If things don't workout between you two, crap would be awkward. That's my advice.

Here is what you wanna hear:

Go for it. Be her partner, get what you want (assuming you know how to get it). Tell her you already told her you didn't want a relationship. Then move on. Simple.
 
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iqqi

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I think that she is very into you, and you could have your way with her.

However, I think that you are right in assuming that she is naive, immature, and a little unstable <---- naive + immature generally does = unstable.

The moral part of me says find better prey.
 
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