guys, i'll probably meet a coworker I dated several months ago, whom I had sex with, then I became needy and clingy and, as expected, she tried to LJBF me but got the "thanks, but no thanks" answer. I walked away and 3-4 months have passed now. What's the best answer to her likely "I'm sorry that things didn't work out"? Of course this is not because she's really sorry for me, it's just because she feels uncomfortable and has to stop her hamster running thanks my unlikely validation
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how would you reply to this?
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Man up and own the fact that you like her.
Face the reality of her disinterest without blaming her for it, or demanding to be treated according to some special protocol of how you think guys should be treated.
Accept the pain and frustration without covering it up or pretending not to care. Its brave to be vulnerable, its brave to love someone who doesnt requite it, and the heroes reward is often suffering. Any shortcut over these truths I see as something that will hinder your development as a man.
Ego-protection and saving face is beneath us, that is my feeling.
Face the reality of her disinterest without blaming her for it, or demanding to be treated according to some special protocol of how you think guys should be treated.
Accept the pain and frustration without covering it up or pretending not to care. Its brave to be vulnerable, its brave to love someone who doesnt requite it, and the heroes reward is often suffering. Any shortcut over these truths I see as something that will hinder your development as a man.
Ego-protection and saving face is beneath us, that is my feeling.
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Sounds like to she's trying to satisfy her ego. I would respond with:joker79 said:
Nothing.
Just walk away from her, just like you did before.
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Walk away. Say nothing. Drop her ass. Your princess is in another castle anyway.
Case closed. Exit the courtroom.
Case closed. Exit the courtroom.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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