"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ediceneet12

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So I'm seeing a chick tomorrow we made plan's to go to a local park and she sent me after I said i'll see her tommorrow and she said
"is it ok if i wear jeans? I don't wanna shave my legs."
Now normally I don't really care about girls and leg hair it doesn't bother me if girls don't shave there legs, but why the hell would she ask me this and how should i respond? or better yet how would you respond?
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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AlexLefty

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Hmm tricky one. The real question you should be asking is "WHY is she asking this?" and then base your response on that.

Then you should ask "Why do I care why she's asking this" and respond with your first instinct,

I'd say: "Wear jeans if you're not shaving your legs" or "Yeah"
 

Alvafe

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I would say shave it, I want to see your legs, if she do well its kinda a good thing for you.

or don't answer at all and let her decide
 

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rmm well might be kind of gross if she doesnt but im guessing she knows that, could be that shes a bit of an socially awkward girl too. Normally people dont discuss hygiene things with someone if your going on a date with them.
 

Skyline

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That is class A sh*t test. Reply with indifference or somethig funny.

My reply: "The dogs in the park might chase after you they love stuff like that"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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