"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ediceneet12

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So I'm seeing a chick tomorrow we made plan's to go to a local park and she sent me after I said i'll see her tommorrow and she said
"is it ok if i wear jeans? I don't wanna shave my legs."
Now normally I don't really care about girls and leg hair it doesn't bother me if girls don't shave there legs, but why the hell would she ask me this and how should i respond? or better yet how would you respond?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexLefty

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Hmm tricky one. The real question you should be asking is "WHY is she asking this?" and then base your response on that.

Then you should ask "Why do I care why she's asking this" and respond with your first instinct,

I'd say: "Wear jeans if you're not shaving your legs" or "Yeah"
 

Alvafe

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I would say shave it, I want to see your legs, if she do well its kinda a good thing for you.

or don't answer at all and let her decide
 

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rmm well might be kind of gross if she doesnt but im guessing she knows that, could be that shes a bit of an socially awkward girl too. Normally people dont discuss hygiene things with someone if your going on a date with them.
 

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That is class A sh*t test. Reply with indifference or somethig funny.

My reply: "The dogs in the park might chase after you they love stuff like that"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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