There’s this woman at my school that I’ve taken a liking too and I don’t really know her feelings for me. I met her one day at the school (she works there) and we had a brief chat. I didn’t know she worked there because she was dressed more casual then what she usually wears. Her attire was great but she usually wears a pants suit. As time went on I saw her more and more and every time we saw each other she seemed to take a genuine interest in me. Almost as if she cared about me to an extent. She even gave me her business card and told me to call her anytime. Now I don’t know if it’s just me being over analytical but if there’s a way I can find an “in”, I’m all for it. Here’s the kicker: She’s a 40 something and I’m an early 20 something. She’s divorced and has two “kids” that are a little older than me. Now I know a relationship is completely out of the question but she’s a cool, attractive woman and I would like to have sex with her. She’s all professional at school but she looks like she would shed all of that in the bedroom. I wanna see how great her pussy most likely is but she looks like the type that’ll be like “young man that’s inappropriate” if I even tried to ask her out for “coffee“ as they say. How would you find your way in despite these circumstances?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How would you pull this off?
- Thread starter S. Pryor
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Man, seriously, what have you got to lose by calling her "anytime" and getting her to meet up with you somewhere?
The worst that could happen is you don't get t bang her, it's not like you are her best friend or anything awkward.
The worst that could happen is you don't get t bang her, it's not like you are her best friend or anything awkward.
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S. Pryor said:
As if she CARED for you? I get the idea that this woman has never given you any signs of sexual interest but she HAS given you signs of caring about you. I don't mean to be rude, but somehow I get the idea that you're still quite the AFC (takes one to know one
). AFC's have the habit of building a "connection" with women, getting close to them, not in a sexual way but more in a "caring" way. Basically they hope that establishing this "connection" will be their way in (to her heart, to her pvssy, whatever). Seriously, do you remember the moment she gave you her business card? What were the two of you talking about before she gave it to you? Were you exchanging signs of sexual interest? Or were you exchanging signs of emotional bonding? The kind that could be described as: "we understand each other", "I know what you've been through", "there is a connection between us" or whatever.I could be totally wrong here, so forgive me if I am...it's just a hunch!
In all fairness, the woman was AT WORK. You think she's gonna be talking some freaky **** at WORK of all places? I can't tell her let's meet up and such and such place cause the number she gave me is her line at the school. Like I said "it would be inappropriate". And I also said, I don't know if I'm being over analytical which you are attempting to prove to be true. Of course that's just my opinion...I could be wrong...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.