There’s this woman at my school that I’ve taken a liking too and I don’t really know her feelings for me. I met her one day at the school (she works there) and we had a brief chat. I didn’t know she worked there because she was dressed more casual then what she usually wears. Her attire was great but she usually wears a pants suit. As time went on I saw her more and more and every time we saw each other she seemed to take a genuine interest in me. Almost as if she cared about me to an extent. She even gave me her business card and told me to call her anytime. Now I don’t know if it’s just me being over analytical but if there’s a way I can find an “in”, I’m all for it. Here’s the kicker: She’s a 40 something and I’m an early 20 something. She’s divorced and has two “kids” that are a little older than me. Now I know a relationship is completely out of the question but she’s a cool, attractive woman and I would like to have sex with her. She’s all professional at school but she looks like she would shed all of that in the bedroom. I wanna see how great her pussy most likely is but she looks like the type that’ll be like “young man that’s inappropriate” if I even tried to ask her out for “coffee“ as they say. How would you find your way in despite these circumstances?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How would you pull this off?
- Thread starter S. Pryor
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Man, seriously, what have you got to lose by calling her "anytime" and getting her to meet up with you somewhere?
The worst that could happen is you don't get t bang her, it's not like you are her best friend or anything awkward.
The worst that could happen is you don't get t bang her, it's not like you are her best friend or anything awkward.
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S. Pryor said:
As if she CARED for you? I get the idea that this woman has never given you any signs of sexual interest but she HAS given you signs of caring about you. I don't mean to be rude, but somehow I get the idea that you're still quite the AFC (takes one to know one
). AFC's have the habit of building a "connection" with women, getting close to them, not in a sexual way but more in a "caring" way. Basically they hope that establishing this "connection" will be their way in (to her heart, to her pvssy, whatever). Seriously, do you remember the moment she gave you her business card? What were the two of you talking about before she gave it to you? Were you exchanging signs of sexual interest? Or were you exchanging signs of emotional bonding? The kind that could be described as: "we understand each other", "I know what you've been through", "there is a connection between us" or whatever.I could be totally wrong here, so forgive me if I am...it's just a hunch!
In all fairness, the woman was AT WORK. You think she's gonna be talking some freaky **** at WORK of all places? I can't tell her let's meet up and such and such place cause the number she gave me is her line at the school. Like I said "it would be inappropriate". And I also said, I don't know if I'm being over analytical which you are attempting to prove to be true. Of course that's just my opinion...I could be wrong...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.