“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Goksjr

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Hey guys!

I have a question that I have been thinking of lately. It is not so important to me, but I'm still curious how should I have acted in this situation.

So, I went on a coffee date with this girl and it went pretty good although we had quite a few times awkward silence due to not having so much things to talk about and because we were both pretty shy and nervous. Well, at the end of the date, we went walking so we could relax a bit and not just sit there and wonder what
to talk about next.

Then I went for a kiss and she responded well and wanted to see me again as soon as possible. But, when we went back inside because it was cold outside, the first
thing she said was: "My fingers are cold, warm them", and put her hands in front of me for me to warm them. Well, I did what she asked and yeah, not a big deal.
But now when I think backwards of that situation, I'm wondering should I have done what she asked, or not? Shyt test?
 

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Props for going for the kiss even though things were kind of awkward. Don't over think it, based on what you posted sex with her is in your future. Invite her over to your place or go to her place, get close, talk, tell her your hands are cold now and she needs to return the favor, kiss her and seal the deal.
 

LMFAO

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You handled it well enough. I don't bother with coffee dates myself anymore, particularly because they are fvcking boring, but also because there is next to zero chance of a bang from it.
 

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Should have took her hands and put them down your pants and told her science has proven this is the warmest part of the body...lmao
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Not a sh1t test. This was a genuine invitation for some physical touch.
 
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