"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How would you handle this ?

Golden Arms

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Pair A Dice said:
How do you have 560 posts and you're so bad at this?

You've gone through two dates with her and the most you've done is kiss on the lips and nothing else. Do you see something wrong with that?

Put her on the backburner and only reply when she texts you something that deserves replying.
I've been gone from the board for a while. So you might say I'm rusty. And as bad as I am now, I was way worse when I first joined.

Thanks for the advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Golden Arms,

don't let pair a dice make you feel bad, he is a notorious keyboard DJ on this site who seems to think that every 9 out of 10 you date will fvck you on the second date.

But you have to make sure you don't spend too much time on this girl. She is a selfish golddigger, and she is not even hiding it.

As for guys like pair a dice, goldenarms you have been on this forum long enough to know the difference between guys who give good advice here, and keyboard DJ's who just run their mouths.
 

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jammer said:
Golden Arms,

don't let pair a dice make you feel bad, he is a notorious keyboard DJ on this site who seems to think that every 9 out of 10 you date will fvck you on the second date.

But you have to make sure you don't spend too much time on this girl. She is a selfish golddigger, and she is not even hiding it.

As for guys like pair a dice, goldenarms you have been on this forum long enough to know the difference between guys who give good advice here, and keyboard DJ's who just run their mouths.
Thanks, I appreciate it.

I do think that Par-a-dice has a good point about putting her on the backburner. Which I am. I'm not going to actively pursue her for a bit, and let her wonder.

She called/texted me last night at midnight to wish me happy new year and happy 37th b-day (I'm a New Year baby)
 
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