"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How would you handle this ?

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Pair A Dice said:
How do you have 560 posts and you're so bad at this?

You've gone through two dates with her and the most you've done is kiss on the lips and nothing else. Do you see something wrong with that?

Put her on the backburner and only reply when she texts you something that deserves replying.
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I've been gone from the board for a while. So you might say I'm rusty. And as bad as I am now, I was way worse when I first joined.

Thanks for the advice.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Golden Arms,

don't let pair a dice make you feel bad, he is a notorious keyboard DJ on this site who seems to think that every 9 out of 10 you date will fvck you on the second date.

But you have to make sure you don't spend too much time on this girl. She is a selfish golddigger, and she is not even hiding it.

As for guys like pair a dice, goldenarms you have been on this forum long enough to know the difference between guys who give good advice here, and keyboard DJ's who just run their mouths.
 
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jammer said:
Golden Arms,

don't let pair a dice make you feel bad, he is a notorious keyboard DJ on this site who seems to think that every 9 out of 10 you date will fvck you on the second date.

But you have to make sure you don't spend too much time on this girl. She is a selfish golddigger, and she is not even hiding it.

As for guys like pair a dice, goldenarms you have been on this forum long enough to know the difference between guys who give good advice here, and keyboard DJ's who just run their mouths.
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Thanks, I appreciate it.

I do think that Par-a-dice has a good point about putting her on the backburner. Which I am. I'm not going to actively pursue her for a bit, and let her wonder.

She called/texted me last night at midnight to wish me happy new year and happy 37th b-day (I'm a New Year baby)
 
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