"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Locogooner

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Here's the cliff notes

>At pub packed full of chicks
>I'm standing with my bros
>group of about 7 girls on the table next to us
>One of the girls on the table says to me 'Excuse me, are you related to Trey Songz?
this is Trey Songz, if you don't know who he is http://videokeman.com/image/pics/TreySongzsongPics1dNCRpsG1M9sWGM.jpg
>I say 'yeah,why?'
>she says 'haha, you're looking gorgeous tonight' then proceeds to say I have a nice ass.

I just laugh it off and continue chatting with my bros. My group game sucks lol. If she was on her own though, there's a good chance I'd have pulled.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Locogooner said:
Here's the cliff notes

>At pub packed full of chicks
>I'm standing with my bros
>group of about 7 girls on the table next to us
>One of the girls on the table says to me 'Excuse me, are you related to Trey Songz?
this is Trey Songz, if you don't know who he is http://videokeman.com/image/pics/TreySongzsongPics1dNCRpsG1M9sWGM.jpg
>I say 'yeah,why?'
>she says 'haha, you're looking gorgeous tonight' then proceeds to say I have a nice ass.

I just laugh it off and continue chatting with my bros. My group game sucks lol. If she was on her own though, there's a good chance I'd have pulled.

What would you do? Serious answers.
Are you a actually related to him? And whenever a girl says your hot, you're cute, your funny, I like you, or anything of that nature....I always drop the classic Hans solo line that he said to princess lea when she said "I love you" that line is "I know"
 

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wataf said:
Are you a actually related to him? And whenever a girl says your hot, you're cute, your funny, I like you, or anything of that nature....I always drop the classic Hans solo line that he said to princess lea when she said "I love you" that line is "I know"
I'm not lol.
 

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I would have probably said

"you can grab it if ya want"

If she grabs it great, if she says no just play it off. You come off confident either way.
 
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