"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How would you handle this situation?

Locogooner

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Here's the cliff notes

>At pub packed full of chicks
>I'm standing with my bros
>group of about 7 girls on the table next to us
>One of the girls on the table says to me 'Excuse me, are you related to Trey Songz?
this is Trey Songz, if you don't know who he is http://videokeman.com/image/pics/TreySongzsongPics1dNCRpsG1M9sWGM.jpg
>I say 'yeah,why?'
>she says 'haha, you're looking gorgeous tonight' then proceeds to say I have a nice ass.

I just laugh it off and continue chatting with my bros. My group game sucks lol. If she was on her own though, there's a good chance I'd have pulled.

What would you do? Serious answers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Locogooner said:
Here's the cliff notes

>At pub packed full of chicks
>I'm standing with my bros
>group of about 7 girls on the table next to us
>One of the girls on the table says to me 'Excuse me, are you related to Trey Songz?
this is Trey Songz, if you don't know who he is http://videokeman.com/image/pics/TreySongzsongPics1dNCRpsG1M9sWGM.jpg
>I say 'yeah,why?'
>she says 'haha, you're looking gorgeous tonight' then proceeds to say I have a nice ass.

I just laugh it off and continue chatting with my bros. My group game sucks lol. If she was on her own though, there's a good chance I'd have pulled.

What would you do? Serious answers.
Are you a actually related to him? And whenever a girl says your hot, you're cute, your funny, I like you, or anything of that nature....I always drop the classic Hans solo line that he said to princess lea when she said "I love you" that line is "I know"
 

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wataf said:
Are you a actually related to him? And whenever a girl says your hot, you're cute, your funny, I like you, or anything of that nature....I always drop the classic Hans solo line that he said to princess lea when she said "I love you" that line is "I know"
I'm not lol.
 

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I would have probably said

"you can grab it if ya want"

If she grabs it great, if she says no just play it off. You come off confident either way.
 
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