"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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cali0

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RESPONSE TO:

"I DON'T GIVE MY NUMBER TO STRANGER"


I went clubbing with my friends last weekend. I started to talk to his hb that caught my eye. I apply some kino on her and she seem fine with it. But when it was time to number close, I didn't get it.

me: where you going
hb: about to leave
me: hey, let me get your number
hb: I don't give my number to stranger
me: ok just walked off ( i couldnt come up with anything)


I saw her later on that night at a resturant. As I approach the doorway, we caught EC, she smiled and I smiled back. After me and my friend were finished eating. I saw her again at the parking lot. I caught EC her again and we both waved good bye.


I just acted normal to her even though she didnt give me her number. I felt like she was just a friendly hb. BTW, she friend's of a friend's friend kind of crap. LOL
 

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Robert28

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same thing happened to me before. when she said "i don't give my number to strangers" just say something like "ok, my name is (insert name) whats yours?" when she tells you then say "now we arent strangers anymore. it worked for me like a charm. its all in the way you say it though, and your body actions.
 

DohnShaft

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After you saw her again really weren't strangers anymore and you could have definitely come up with something witty to say at that point. You already created a lil' rapport with her or at least created an inside joke. You had an angle and still could of tried to get the digits. Seems like there will be a next time though, but if not keep pimpin'...
 
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