"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cali0

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RESPONSE TO:

"I DON'T GIVE MY NUMBER TO STRANGER"


I went clubbing with my friends last weekend. I started to talk to his hb that caught my eye. I apply some kino on her and she seem fine with it. But when it was time to number close, I didn't get it.

me: where you going
hb: about to leave
me: hey, let me get your number
hb: I don't give my number to stranger
me: ok just walked off ( i couldnt come up with anything)


I saw her later on that night at a resturant. As I approach the doorway, we caught EC, she smiled and I smiled back. After me and my friend were finished eating. I saw her again at the parking lot. I caught EC her again and we both waved good bye.


I just acted normal to her even though she didnt give me her number. I felt like she was just a friendly hb. BTW, she friend's of a friend's friend kind of crap. LOL
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Robert28

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same thing happened to me before. when she said "i don't give my number to strangers" just say something like "ok, my name is (insert name) whats yours?" when she tells you then say "now we arent strangers anymore. it worked for me like a charm. its all in the way you say it though, and your body actions.
 

DohnShaft

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After you saw her again really weren't strangers anymore and you could have definitely come up with something witty to say at that point. You already created a lil' rapport with her or at least created an inside joke. You had an angle and still could of tried to get the digits. Seems like there will be a next time though, but if not keep pimpin'...
 
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