"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you tried to set something up to see a chick, she invited you to her open mic because it was on the day you suggested, then you counter Saturday at a certain place and time, she accepts and she said will confirm?
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Do you like her or want to game her? You are pedestaling by just having to ask.
She invited you into her life. GO. But go because you want new experiances.

When she gets of stage tell her you enjoyed her and tell her you can only stay for one drink and then you must run.

If you want to know why I suggest this read the rest of the forum. I must run.
 

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who cares either shes down or shes not. also would not give girl a weekend night of my time if i havent even fked her yet
 

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Julian said:
who cares either shes down or shes not. also would not give girl a weekend night of my time if i havent even fked her yet
Yeah but she's brought up getting together on the weekend before though and what better night to f-close? Make sense? Maybe not. I think I should have waited until next week to get a weekday. Plus it's Valentine's Day and it's our third date! Not cool.
 

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lol oh well just roll with it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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salinechow said:
Do you like her or want to game her? You are pedestaling by just having to ask.
She invited you into her life. GO. But go because you want new experiances.

When she gets of stage tell her you enjoyed her and tell her you can only stay for one drink and then you must run.

If you want to know why I suggest this read the rest of the forum. I must run.
Well I suggested Saturday (my place on Valentine's day!) and locked it down. It's definite at this point but she's gonna confirm. HUGE MISTAKE. I should have opted for the open mic because it demonstrated me taking it slower and having more options. It also is a neutral setting which is good because she might be backing off. Ugh…
 
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