Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah but she's brought up getting together on the weekend before though and what better night to f-close? Make sense? Maybe not. I think I should have waited until next week to get a weekday. Plus it's Valentine's Day and it's our third date! Not cool.Julian said:
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Well I suggested Saturday (my place on Valentine's day!) and locked it down. It's definite at this point but she's gonna confirm. HUGE MISTAKE. I should have opted for the open mic because it demonstrated me taking it slower and having more options. It also is a neutral setting which is good because she might be backing off. Ugh…salinechow said: