"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you tried to set something up to see a chick, she invited you to her open mic because it was on the day you suggested, then you counter Saturday at a certain place and time, she accepts and she said will confirm?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you like her or want to game her? You are pedestaling by just having to ask.
She invited you into her life. GO. But go because you want new experiances.

When she gets of stage tell her you enjoyed her and tell her you can only stay for one drink and then you must run.

If you want to know why I suggest this read the rest of the forum. I must run.
 

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who cares either shes down or shes not. also would not give girl a weekend night of my time if i havent even fked her yet
 

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Julian said:
who cares either shes down or shes not. also would not give girl a weekend night of my time if i havent even fked her yet
Yeah but she's brought up getting together on the weekend before though and what better night to f-close? Make sense? Maybe not. I think I should have waited until next week to get a weekday. Plus it's Valentine's Day and it's our third date! Not cool.
 

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lol oh well just roll with it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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salinechow said:
Do you like her or want to game her? You are pedestaling by just having to ask.
She invited you into her life. GO. But go because you want new experiances.

When she gets of stage tell her you enjoyed her and tell her you can only stay for one drink and then you must run.

If you want to know why I suggest this read the rest of the forum. I must run.
Well I suggested Saturday (my place on Valentine's day!) and locked it down. It's definite at this point but she's gonna confirm. HUGE MISTAKE. I should have opted for the open mic because it demonstrated me taking it slower and having more options. It also is a neutral setting which is good because she might be backing off. Ugh…
 
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