"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How would you effectively respond to this test?

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FM 3321

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I have a very attractive fitness trainer (HB 9+) that I have training sessions with and the cool thing about it is that not only am I getting in shape, but I'm learning how to communicate effectively with beautiful women. Since I attempt to flirt, be ****y and funny and tease her, she throws test at me and I know I pass them if she laughs or she does something like lightly hit or touch me.

Anyway, I had a question for her today and I left a message to call me back. When she called back I picked up saying "Local police deparment, this is FM 3321 speaking."......she got confused and I said "Hey, I'm just f*cking with you it's me."

She responded smiling saying "I'm not gonna answer your question if you're gonna play a trick on me..."

Honestly that threw me for a loop because I wasn't expecting an answer like that. Girls usually laugh or something else but she threw a test and I wasn't sure how to effectively respond to it. I played it off as no big deal and told her that I had a good question and that it wasn't a math question. There was a little more small talk and I thanked her for answering my question but I knew I lost control somehow. So I'm bringing this to the Discussion Forum to take a deeper look at it and learn something from the interaction.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alphathree

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You're so combatative... just let it fly... that's not a test... that's just a girl being confused. Sure, there's a little bit of p_ussy power in her talking like that, but it's definitely not an outright test.

The entire world isn't a ****y-and-funny war... use it sparingly. If you don't come up with something in the moment, just say "okay, whatever." It's fine.
 
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FM 3321

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Makes sense. Maybe I'm crossing the line by trying too hard with the ****y and seeing many things as a test.
 
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Women give many tests. It's your job to know when you are being tested.
 
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