"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey Buds,

I got my eye on a Bank Teller who handles my Personal and Biz Accounts. She's Mega Hot----looks Indian or Mixed---and i'm a white guy ! (lol)

Anyway, she's a bit younger than me,---and like i said, she's hot---but appears not to be conceded and mostly humble.

I'm looking for some ideas on how to "get with" this chick....I'm scratching my head trying to figure "How to handle this ? ? "

My goal is (of course) to "knock boots" with this chick.

Suggestions ? ? ?

Thanks Mates!

~T
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moved out of Mature Man - no age in profile.
 
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Whoops....sorry. I'm 42...she's looks like late 20's!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Arrgh last post for the week go stuff to do but hey one more for the bros. You've got ready made hooks - hey I'm good with money but my accounts need a woman's touch. This money stuff is good so I can pursue my passions which are ....blah blah. Keep the hooks short and keep the focus on her. Every chick looks for 1. looks, 2. money 3. social status - (scientifically researched). Drop short indirect stories that touch those 3 bases. And assume success - hey we should catchup - do you want to go for coffee or a drink after work. If that little lot doesn't work at least u know u gave it a good nudge and NEXT - don't go down with One-itis.
 
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tcw said:
Whoops....sorry. I'm 42...she's looks like late 20's!
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Age has to be in public profile to post in MM. Just edit your profile and next time you can post in there.
 
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