Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How would you Approach ? ? ?

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Hey Buds,

I got my eye on a Bank Teller who handles my Personal and Biz Accounts. She's Mega Hot----looks Indian or Mixed---and i'm a white guy ! (lol)

Anyway, she's a bit younger than me,---and like i said, she's hot---but appears not to be conceded and mostly humble.

I'm looking for some ideas on how to "get with" this chick....I'm scratching my head trying to figure "How to handle this ? ? "

My goal is (of course) to "knock boots" with this chick.

Suggestions ? ? ?

Thanks Mates!

~T
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Moved out of Mature Man - no age in profile.
 

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Whoops....sorry. I'm 42...she's looks like late 20's!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Arrgh last post for the week go stuff to do but hey one more for the bros. You've got ready made hooks - hey I'm good with money but my accounts need a woman's touch. This money stuff is good so I can pursue my passions which are ....blah blah. Keep the hooks short and keep the focus on her. Every chick looks for 1. looks, 2. money 3. social status - (scientifically researched). Drop short indirect stories that touch those 3 bases. And assume success - hey we should catchup - do you want to go for coffee or a drink after work. If that little lot doesn't work at least u know u gave it a good nudge and NEXT - don't go down with One-itis.
 

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tcw said:
Whoops....sorry. I'm 42...she's looks like late 20's!
Age has to be in public profile to post in MM. Just edit your profile and next time you can post in there.
 
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