"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey Buds,

I got my eye on a Bank Teller who handles my Personal and Biz Accounts. She's Mega Hot----looks Indian or Mixed---and i'm a white guy ! (lol)

Anyway, she's a bit younger than me,---and like i said, she's hot---but appears not to be conceded and mostly humble.

I'm looking for some ideas on how to "get with" this chick....I'm scratching my head trying to figure "How to handle this ? ? "

My goal is (of course) to "knock boots" with this chick.

Suggestions ? ? ?

Thanks Mates!

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Moved out of Mature Man - no age in profile.
 
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Whoops....sorry. I'm 42...she's looks like late 20's!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Arrgh last post for the week go stuff to do but hey one more for the bros. You've got ready made hooks - hey I'm good with money but my accounts need a woman's touch. This money stuff is good so I can pursue my passions which are ....blah blah. Keep the hooks short and keep the focus on her. Every chick looks for 1. looks, 2. money 3. social status - (scientifically researched). Drop short indirect stories that touch those 3 bases. And assume success - hey we should catchup - do you want to go for coffee or a drink after work. If that little lot doesn't work at least u know u gave it a good nudge and NEXT - don't go down with One-itis.
 
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tcw said:
Whoops....sorry. I'm 42...she's looks like late 20's!
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Age has to be in public profile to post in MM. Just edit your profile and next time you can post in there.
 
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