"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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-Guy next to her got up and left, she was there alone. I would have had a few minute window to go sit next to her
-Would have been an upgrade from my current date which was why I didn't, but if I could do it over I definitely would have
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RangerMIke

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I would approach her and joke around and tease her about her skirt.. since it looks like Bear Bryant's hat. I'd read her body language and ask her name, if she is open I'd say something like she would look better without the skirt. And let her wonder what I meant. Chat for 5 minutes about lunch then say I was in a hurry and had to leave and ask for her number. Then read her BL again... if she gives it up without hesitation then it's game on... call her in a couple of days and try to make a date... if she says yes then it's game on. If none of this goes well then on to the next one..
 

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I would first ask her if I could join her . It's important because you're invading into her personal space. It's important to ask her because lot of girls get offended by it most of times( this is how things are in Europe) Once she accepts introduce yourself and ask things about her , joke with her , use the objects in your environment to make things flow . Grab her phone number to hang out some other time . Say that you're really busy and that you have to go but ask her for her phone number.

If she does not accept any of your proposals, retreat politely and move on. And don't worry about any potential rejection, you get valuable experience out of it.
 
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