"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How would you approach this?

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-Guy next to her got up and left, she was there alone. I would have had a few minute window to go sit next to her
-Would have been an upgrade from my current date which was why I didn't, but if I could do it over I definitely would have
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RangerMIke

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I would approach her and joke around and tease her about her skirt.. since it looks like Bear Bryant's hat. I'd read her body language and ask her name, if she is open I'd say something like she would look better without the skirt. And let her wonder what I meant. Chat for 5 minutes about lunch then say I was in a hurry and had to leave and ask for her number. Then read her BL again... if she gives it up without hesitation then it's game on... call her in a couple of days and try to make a date... if she says yes then it's game on. If none of this goes well then on to the next one..
 

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I would first ask her if I could join her . It's important because you're invading into her personal space. It's important to ask her because lot of girls get offended by it most of times( this is how things are in Europe) Once she accepts introduce yourself and ask things about her , joke with her , use the objects in your environment to make things flow . Grab her phone number to hang out some other time . Say that you're really busy and that you have to go but ask her for her phone number.

If she does not accept any of your proposals, retreat politely and move on. And don't worry about any potential rejection, you get valuable experience out of it.
 
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