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How would losing sexual function affect your game?

TonyJ78

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I'm at what I'd consider nearing my prime even though I'm 43 years old. I'm very close to being in better shape than I was at 25, have tons of energy and feel my SMV is at an all-time high. I feel like I have a lot going for me now but I sometimes wonder what I would do if god forbid something happened and I couldn't have sex anymore. What would you do as far as female relations go? Would it change the way you interact with a woman or how you would go about keeping one in your life if that was what you wanted? Purely a thought experiment but I was curious if anyone else has considered this and how you think you would deal with it.
 

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I'm at what I'd consider nearing my prime even though I'm 43 years old. I'm very close to being in better shape than I was at 25, have tons of energy and feel my SMV is at an all-time high. I feel like I have a lot going for me now but I sometimes wonder what I would do if god forbid something happened and I couldn't have sex anymore. What would you do as far as female relations go? Would it change the way you interact with a woman or how you would go about keeping one in your life if that was what you wanted? Purely a thought experiment but I was curious if anyone else has considered this and how you think you would deal with it.
Only if you live with, are married to, and care about that woman deeply, then realize there’s more than one way to satisfy her. When a man loses his D there’s not much enjoyment for him, so the focus would have to be on his character quality and the live with woman he deeply cares about.
Key word here is deeply …
 

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I'd do anything. I'd take mega doses of cialis/viagra and nitric oxide boosters.

If that didn't work I'd take experimental/designer drugs such as Melanotan II and others.

If no drugs worked I'd see every urologist, endocrinologist, and mens clinic in town.

If I I lost my **** in some tragic accident, I'd probably give up on women for the rest of my life and become a celibate monk.

Game certainly can make up for some sexual inadequecies (a girl will always rather **** an average looking guy with an average ****/sexual skill who controls her mind over some model type guy with a big **** who can **** her good but has no game). But, no amount of game can make up for complete sexual dysfunction.
 
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I'm at what I'd consider nearing my prime even though I'm 43 years old. I'm very close to being in better shape than I was at 25, have tons of energy and feel my SMV is at an all-time high. I feel like I have a lot going for me now but I sometimes wonder what I would do if god forbid something happened and I couldn't have sex anymore. What would you do as far as female relations go? Would it change the way you interact with a woman or how you would go about keeping one in your life if that was what you wanted? Purely a thought experiment but I was curious if anyone else has considered this and how you think you would deal with it.
I can imagine all sorts of kinky things to do with a woman that doesn't involve penetration so I don't think it's necessary.
 

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I honestly would need some type of therapy if my d stopped working. I went thru episodes in college when i went on an extreme cutting diet. It crashed my libido... I was completely miserable but always knew it would come back.
 

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I honestly would need some type of therapy if my d stopped working. I went thru episodes in college when i went on an extreme cutting diet. It crashed my libido... I was completely miserable but always knew it would come back.
You weren't eating much fats were you?
 

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I'm at what I'd consider nearing my prime even though I'm 43 years old. I'm very close to being in better shape than I was at 25, have tons of energy and feel my SMV is at an all-time high. I feel like I have a lot going for me now but I sometimes wonder what I would do if god forbid something happened and I couldn't have sex anymore. What would you do as far as female relations go? Would it change the way you interact with a woman or how you would go about keeping one in your life if that was what you wanted? Purely a thought experiment but I was curious if anyone else has considered this and how you think you would deal with it.
Well if someone's sex drive is failing or they are having a hard time with elections there's multiple ways to fix these problems.

You could do jelqing excercise (ive done it and it works) and make your **** bigger and healthier and harder

Or you could look into mark bowden on YouTube he's a clinical hypnotherapist that I use. He's got an app for pretty cheap that can help in a whole bunch of areas with hypnosis and teaching you cognitive behavioral therapy strategies. Its very helpful. Teaches how to manipulate different types of confidence etc in tons of different areas. Basically anything you can do to improve yourself he can help with. Life changing ****. He's on YouTube but the app is way better. Even sexual anxiety or social anxiety is easily overcome with this stuff if you use the strategies he uses and pay attention to how he influences your subconscious.
 

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Well if someone's sex drive is failing or they are having a hard time with elections there's multiple ways to fix these problems.

You could do jelqing excercise (ive done it and it works) and make your **** bigger and healthier and harder

Or you could look into mark bowden on YouTube he's a clinical hypnotherapist that I use. He's got an app for pretty cheap that can help in a whole bunch of areas with hypnosis and teaching you cognitive behavioral therapy strategies. Its very helpful. Teaches how to manipulate different types of confidence etc in tons of different areas. Basically anything you can do to improve yourself he can help with. Life changing ****. He's on YouTube but the app is way better. Even sexual anxiety or social anxiety is easily overcome with this stuff if you use the strategies he uses and pay attention to how he influences your subconscious.
I was thinking more along the lines of complete loss of sexual function. But it's interesting you mentioned jelquing because I had read it can actually cause you to lose some feeling. I haven't tried it personally but recently I've found it takes me forever to get off even though I'm hard and it's something I've been looking into a little
 

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Dude what? Lol If you cant **** the ***** why on earth would have these women around?
Womens only value is their sexual agency and their "home skills"
Anything else is a cope and a lie. The modern lie.
Sex is great, and I've said this before, but I really enjoy the companionship of being with a woman, as well. Are you saying this could not exist without the sex or that it's somehow only imagined due to the conditioning we've undergone throughout our lives?
 

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I'm sure that I would probably change my mind should I ever lose the ability to penetrate a woman with my penis, however as things sit right now, I think I'd lose the will to live. In my 50's, a normal week for me includes having sex 15-20 times (OR MORE), I love sex, every last part of it, I love the female form, I love how they react to me, the act, the whole dance. How I can take her mind and body places - yes I can do that without my penis too, but penetration is where it's at, watching the action in a mirror or straight on.

To me, it is life-sustaining and reaffirming. Yeah yeah yeah, "don't make women your mission" - speak for yourself - it works for me and I'm getting laid like tile, have been for years, and will continue to till the day I leave this mortal coil. AND LOVE EVERY MINUTE OF IT.
 

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I'd turn into a monk, learn kung-fu, find inner peace, build a better relationship with God, and focus on being happy. It's either that or death surely.
 

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I was thinking more along the lines of complete loss of sexual function. But it's interesting you mentioned jelquing because I had read it can actually cause you to lose some feeling. I haven't tried it personally but recently I've found it takes me forever to get off even though I'm hard and it's something I've been looking into a little
Yeah. There's a few things you need to do. U gotta warm up the blood. So if your jn the shower just put hot water on your crotch for like 10 min this is not great to do for sperm production and then jelq at like 70 percent hardness. 70 percent is the key. You can mess yourself up if your harder ghan that.

But yeah you can add a lot of size. It took me like 2 months of doing it 5 times a week to get any size difference but then it increased really quickly. Really good for size and now I get compliments on how nice it is
 

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I'm at what I'd consider nearing my prime even though I'm 43 years old. I'm very close to being in better shape than I was at 25, have tons of energy and feel my SMV is at an all-time high. I feel like I have a lot going for me now but I sometimes wonder what I would do if god forbid something happened and I couldn't have sex anymore. What would you do as far as female relations go? Would it change the way you interact with a woman or how you would go about keeping one in your life if that was what you wanted? Purely a thought experiment but I was curious if anyone else has considered this and how you think you would deal with it.
Don't even entertain the thought. Unless of course you have ED why waste your time thinking about futility and morbidity?

Tristan Tate did a pod with JMULV. Tate Saud he won fiction one day but he will enjoy his kingdom and lineage that being many children and grandchildren children.

Begin with the end in mind.
 

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"If you were a guy, who just lost his pecker, would you want to live? Press the die button you fu*king moron."
 

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I could tolerate it as a guy, but it would be unacceptable to 99.9 percent of women; so forget a relationship.

It would necessarily mean full monk mode, ie hardcore MGTOW.
I don't know. Last time I had trouble staying hard I went down on her and gave her the best oral she's ever had. At least according to her
 
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