"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How would James Bond handle BPD?

phil2015

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Hey

Noticing a lot of helpful threads about BPD and Toxic Women appearing on the forum.

If say you start dating a girl and she begins pulling crazy chit, or a HUGE red flag appears....what is the Alpha male way to deal with it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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QuadDeuces

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James Bond is a fictional character with no real emotions.
But Black American pimps like Iceberg Slim and Pimpin' Ken and others who dealt with borderline prostitutes on a daily basis wrote in their books that they throw a party when a hoe leaves, "hoes I dont need them, let the welfare feed em"
 

AlphaNate

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Depends what you mean by "start dating."

LTR? Correct her behavior. If it doesn't change, she's gone.

New chick? Pump and dump.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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