"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

How would James Bond handle BPD?

phil2015

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2014
Messages
205
Reaction score
68
Location
Manchester, England
Hey

Noticing a lot of helpful threads about BPD and Toxic Women appearing on the forum.

If say you start dating a girl and she begins pulling crazy chit, or a HUGE red flag appears....what is the Alpha male way to deal with it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

QuadDeuces

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2012
Messages
646
Reaction score
434
Location
Amsterdam, Netherlands
James Bond is a fictional character with no real emotions.
But Black American pimps like Iceberg Slim and Pimpin' Ken and others who dealt with borderline prostitutes on a daily basis wrote in their books that they throw a party when a hoe leaves, "hoes I dont need them, let the welfare feed em"
 

AlphaNate

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 23, 2012
Messages
756
Reaction score
569
Location
USA
Depends what you mean by "start dating."

LTR? Correct her behavior. If it doesn't change, she's gone.

New chick? Pump and dump.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top