"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How would James Bond handle BPD?

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Hey

Noticing a lot of helpful threads about BPD and Toxic Women appearing on the forum.

If say you start dating a girl and she begins pulling crazy chit, or a HUGE red flag appears....what is the Alpha male way to deal with it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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James Bond is a fictional character with no real emotions.
But Black American pimps like Iceberg Slim and Pimpin' Ken and others who dealt with borderline prostitutes on a daily basis wrote in their books that they throw a party when a hoe leaves, "hoes I dont need them, let the welfare feed em"
 
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Depends what you mean by "start dating."

LTR? Correct her behavior. If it doesn't change, she's gone.

New chick? Pump and dump.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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