yesterday my boy and I went to pick up this girl he's been talking to. we all went to da mall and chilled. but when we were having a conversation it seemed that we had a lot in common and she even said "its like were soulmates". she is a bangin ass puerto rican chick and when we dropped her off at her housed she kissed us both on da cheek. would it be wrong to try to get at her? even though he talked to her first?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How would i handle this situation?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Yes it would be wrong. Since he talked to her first you would be committing adultery.
Austrian88
Don Juan
bros before hos 
- you can still hit on her if your friend doesn't want anything from her
... anyway, "soulmates" looks like "best friends" to me.
- you can still hit on her if your friend doesn't want anything from her ... anyway, "soulmates" looks like "best friends" to me.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
You're gonna sell your bro out for this broad? Haha... you'd be finished fvckin with this broad in no time then wonder WTF you did...
And seriously... 'Soulmates' is BS... how you gonna be soulmates when you're just shooting the breeze at the mall having met earlier that day... and yea, one word of advice - young chicks aren't lookin for soulmates
And seriously... 'Soulmates' is BS... how you gonna be soulmates when you're just shooting the breeze at the mall having met earlier that day... and yea, one word of advice - young chicks aren't lookin for soulmates