yesterday my boy and I went to pick up this girl he's been talking to. we all went to da mall and chilled. but when we were having a conversation it seemed that we had a lot in common and she even said "its like were soulmates". she is a bangin ass puerto rican chick and when we dropped her off at her housed she kissed us both on da cheek. would it be wrong to try to get at her? even though he talked to her first?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How would i handle this situation?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Yes it would be wrong. Since he talked to her first you would be committing adultery.
Austrian88
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bros before hos 
- you can still hit on her if your friend doesn't want anything from her
... anyway, "soulmates" looks like "best friends" to me.
- you can still hit on her if your friend doesn't want anything from her ... anyway, "soulmates" looks like "best friends" to me.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Chemistry
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You're gonna sell your bro out for this broad? Haha... you'd be finished fvckin with this broad in no time then wonder WTF you did...
And seriously... 'Soulmates' is BS... how you gonna be soulmates when you're just shooting the breeze at the mall having met earlier that day... and yea, one word of advice - young chicks aren't lookin for soulmates
And seriously... 'Soulmates' is BS... how you gonna be soulmates when you're just shooting the breeze at the mall having met earlier that day... and yea, one word of advice - young chicks aren't lookin for soulmates