yesterday my boy and I went to pick up this girl he's been talking to. we all went to da mall and chilled. but when we were having a conversation it seemed that we had a lot in common and she even said "its like were soulmates". she is a bangin ass puerto rican chick and when we dropped her off at her housed she kissed us both on da cheek. would it be wrong to try to get at her? even though he talked to her first?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How would i handle this situation?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Yes it would be wrong. Since he talked to her first you would be committing adultery.
Austrian88
Don Juan
bros before hos 
- you can still hit on her if your friend doesn't want anything from her
... anyway, "soulmates" looks like "best friends" to me.
- you can still hit on her if your friend doesn't want anything from her ... anyway, "soulmates" looks like "best friends" to me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
You're gonna sell your bro out for this broad? Haha... you'd be finished fvckin with this broad in no time then wonder WTF you did...
And seriously... 'Soulmates' is BS... how you gonna be soulmates when you're just shooting the breeze at the mall having met earlier that day... and yea, one word of advice - young chicks aren't lookin for soulmates
And seriously... 'Soulmates' is BS... how you gonna be soulmates when you're just shooting the breeze at the mall having met earlier that day... and yea, one word of advice - young chicks aren't lookin for soulmates