Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It sounds like her interest is high. You obviously can contact her through social media.ok I'm pretty this solid 8/10 is digging me. the other day we were both at the same bar and she was constantly staring at me. making conversation etc. i got the vibe she found me attractive. also right after that day everything I put on social media she has liked she has never done that before. now we both hang out in different circles so I usually never see her but how would I go about getting her?
You've lost half of the psychological battle by placing her on a pedestal. There's no such thing as a "dime". It's just a chick dude. If she doesn't want you, screw her. Better women shall come.ok I'm pretty this solid 8/10 is digging me. the other day we were both at the same bar and she was constantly staring at me. making conversation etc. i got the vibe she found me attractive. also right after that day everything I put on social media she has liked she has never done that before. now we both hang out in different circles so I usually never see her but how would I go about getting her?
If she is digging you, why are you cucking around on the forum. Get a throater then e brag. I would. If your not hitting it, someone else is. Just saying.ok I'm pretty this solid 8/10 is digging me. the other day we were both at the same bar and she was constantly staring at me. making conversation etc. i got the vibe she found me attractive. also right after that day everything I put on social media she has liked she has never done that before. now we both hang out in different circles so I usually never see her but how would I go about getting her?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LOL. Wrong mentality. She should scoring YOU. Once you get into that frame, all else will fall into place.how would I go about scoring this dime?
Face palm :/well I had just met her and we were in a group setting I was sitting with my friends on my side and on the other side of the table was her and her friends.