She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It sounds like her interest is high. You obviously can contact her through social media.ok I'm pretty this solid 8/10 is digging me. the other day we were both at the same bar and she was constantly staring at me. making conversation etc. i got the vibe she found me attractive. also right after that day everything I put on social media she has liked she has never done that before. now we both hang out in different circles so I usually never see her but how would I go about getting her?
You've lost half of the psychological battle by placing her on a pedestal. There's no such thing as a "dime". It's just a chick dude. If she doesn't want you, screw her. Better women shall come.ok I'm pretty this solid 8/10 is digging me. the other day we were both at the same bar and she was constantly staring at me. making conversation etc. i got the vibe she found me attractive. also right after that day everything I put on social media she has liked she has never done that before. now we both hang out in different circles so I usually never see her but how would I go about getting her?
If she is digging you, why are you cucking around on the forum. Get a throater then e brag. I would. If your not hitting it, someone else is. Just saying.ok I'm pretty this solid 8/10 is digging me. the other day we were both at the same bar and she was constantly staring at me. making conversation etc. i got the vibe she found me attractive. also right after that day everything I put on social media she has liked she has never done that before. now we both hang out in different circles so I usually never see her but how would I go about getting her?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LOL. Wrong mentality. She should scoring YOU. Once you get into that frame, all else will fall into place.how would I go about scoring this dime?
Face palm :/well I had just met her and we were in a group setting I was sitting with my friends on my side and on the other side of the table was her and her friends.