“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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how would I go about getting this kind of body?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CaptainJ

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You want the body of a malnourished child? Just diet and soon you'll look as strange as the guy in the 2nd photo.
 

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CaptainJ said:
You want the body of a malnourished child? Just diet and soon you'll look as strange as the guy in the 2nd photo.
...enlighten us with your physique,since your so willing to bash someone else's,I'm sure your is as proportionally and lean built as his if not more.
 

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The dude in the second pic is really lean. This would mean that your diet and conditioninng/cardio work would be really important. You'd also want to build up a solid strength base for muscularity, which translates to a faster metabolic rate.

Above all, leanness is associated w/ eating clean most of the time (unless you have totally freaky genetics).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kingkong98 said:
this would be what my body currenty looks like
http://allieiswired.com/wp-content/uploads/original//163.jpg


this is what id want it to look like
http://singlegalsdotcom.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/cam-gigandet.jpg

how do i get there?
Not a difficult one really. You look in reasonable condition now. Remember the guy in the second photo does have a tan and probably is waxed. I would say a clean diet which is low in carbs and higher in protein, deriving your carbs from fresh fruit and veges and keeping away from heavy carbs. To achieve his look you would need to do more cardio, boxercise or kickboxing classes would go along way to achieving this. This is the type of toned body in my view which is easier to maintain and has more appeal to the ladies. If you got a Kettlebell it would also help you achieve this look. As for being malnourished, that is rediculous.
 

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just diet right and continue to do some kind of muscle training and while you are doing it do not put on any fat.
 

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Kerpal said:
I wonder how much the guy in the 2nd picture deadlifts...
Hehe, I'd guess sub 225lbs.

He's very lean but clearly doesn't train for strength.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kingkong98 said:
this would be what my body currenty looks like
http://allieiswired.com/wp-content/uploads/original//163.jpg


this is what id want it to look like
http://singlegalsdotcom.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/cam-gigandet.jpg

how do i get there?

how motivated you are about this?

consistency is the key
..

i will not guide you about the workout stuff because i,m new to it.but what i know is, you should be consistent and motivated..

i find motivation in this blog...find yours...and win.

regards
manish
 

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I think you already have the same body, but he just looks better because of his darker skin drowned in oil.
 

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Saying that he is just lean shows how much knowledge you really know....also by the way,he isn't oiled up.

Look at his shape and contour and proportionality,he's put his time in the weight room.
 

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camdry90 said:
lol shut the fvck up srsly.... i'm saying he's just lean b/c i know i'd crush that guy... some people have been lifting seriously for a while... don't get mad if ur having trouble...
Going places in life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blinkwatt101 said:
Saying that he is just lean shows how much knowledge you really know....also by the way,he isn't oiled up.

Look at his shape and contour and proportionality,he's put his time in the weight room.
Shape? Contour? Proportionality? Wtf is this bullsh1t? This guy is just skinny with little muscle. I fail to see any shape contour or proportionality. Why do you defend these anorexic body types so much? Is it because you have one like that?

He has done jack **** in the weight room, it's all down to his diet. I bet he couldn't even deadlift 60kg
 

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CaptainJ said:
Shape? Contour? Proportionality? Wtf is this bullsh1t? This guy is just skinny with little muscle. I fail to see any shape contour or proportionality. Why do you defend these anorexic body types so much? Is it because you have one like that?

He has done jack **** in the weight room, it's all down to his diet. I bet he couldn't even deadlift 60kg
Wow.

Shape,contour,proportionality are what get you women,money,contracts, and ultimately what most people want from having a nice body sex(read not chunky boy bodies). Just ask Fuglydude,who uses his body for a living.
 

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blinkwatt101 said:
Wow.

Shape,contour,proportionality are what get you women,money,contracts, and ultimately what most people want from having a nice body sex(read not chunky boy bodies). Just ask Fuglydude,who uses his body for a living.
I dance PART TIME... stripping accounts for only 10-15% of my after tax income... I'm not really an authority on what women want in an entertainer, as I don't dance regularly, and I'm sort of a "stagette specialist". I know I would train a lot differently, catering more to aesthetics, if all my cash came from dancing. I focus on training heavy and try to be lean at the same time. I love training heavy. Its one of the ways I relieve stress.

I don't the patience or discipline to watch my diet THAT carefully and I hate doing endless hours of cardio. I still manage 2-3 x 30 min. treadmill sessions a week, and am reasonably adept at cutting down if I have a week or so to prepare for show(s). That being said, I can't be bothered to train for proportion or tone... I'm NOT very proportional: 52-54" inch shoulder girdle w/ 15" arms... 38" ass w/ 15" calves... NOT proportional. I sit around 175-180 at 5'8" w/ around 10% bf... I have a 6 pack all the time except when I eat a giant meal. I'm not as lean or as disciplined as blink when it comes to diet or training for "isolation". I'd rather pull 400+, squat 300+ ATG, do pull ups/dips w/ 100+ around my waist, and be relatively lean, than focus purely on aesthetics and sacrifice strength for a few more lbs of fat loss. Just not my style.

In my experience, women like big, tall, lean/ripped good-looking guys who can put on a good show and are fun w/ great personalities. The top entertainers in my part of the world are in the 6' to 6'3" 210-225 lb range, all shredded w/ 6-8 packs. I think its like this everywhere. A lot of them are on large amounts of gear, but when you're on the road all the time and expected to look elite, its tough to maintain that kinda build w/o a little chemical assistance.

The dude in the pic is definitely good looking w/ a great body that would have most women drooling. However, women have varying taste. I asked my gf, and she considered him ad verbatim "too girly/pretty, but I like his abs". She finds guys like Brad pitt too girly as well. She likes hypermasculine guys... like myself hahaha :cool:
 

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blinkwatt101 said:
Wow.

Shape,contour,proportionality are what get you women,money,contracts, and ultimately what most people want from having a nice body sex(read not chunky boy bodies). Just ask Fuglydude,who uses his body for a living.
I wouldnt worry about it BW. If you listen to half of the rubbish posted on here by keyboard warriors you'd think theres no point in cardio and that deadlifting fatties were the ultimate in fitness:rolleyes:
 

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blinkwatt101 said:
Wow.

Shape,contour,proportionality are what get you women,money,contracts, and ultimately what most people want from having a nice body sex(read not chunky boy bodies). Just ask Fuglydude,who uses his body for a living.
I wouldnt worry about it BW. If you listen to half of the rubbish posted on here by keyboard warriors you'd think theres no point in cardio and that deadlifting fatties were the ultimate in fitness:rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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