"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how would I go about getting this kind of body?

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The original poster was asking for help on how to get a physique HE wanted...NOT the physique everyone else thinks he should have...

since when did it become cool for dudes to talk sh!t and try to shame another dude for being successful ?? I thought chicks behaved that way amongst each other...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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camdry90 said:
Okay, the guy in the pic has a nice physique going on... i'm just simply saying that he'd be useless in the gym... he's prolly got some amazing cardio... and as for the guy up top who says only fat guys can deadlift think again... my bf % is around 12% and i can deadlift a good deal...
What defines one as useless in the gym? Even some of the greatest to ever be seen in bodybuilding only used 30lb dumbbells to curl- Tom Platz being one.

Weight isn't everything.
 

Just a Shot Away

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Wasn't it Thoreau that said simpify? SIMPLIFY, people.

This kind of thing is real simple. First off, to get that body...you must have that dude's (forget his name, but the guy that was in that faggy fighting movie) exact same DNA. Everyone's different, so obviously you will never look EXACTLY like him no matter what.

Second, to get the amount of muscle mass and bodyfat you desire it's the same answer. Everyone wants a shortcut, but there is none...short of Vitamin S. Eat more calories than you burn and work like a dog in the gym (compound multi-joint exercises with progressively increasing weight) to gain muscle. Eat less calories than you burn and work like a dog in the gym (toning) and/or cardio with a high-protein diet to avoid loss of muscle mass to lose bodyfat. That's it. THAT'S IT.

Muscle mags will phrase it differently every issue to continue selling their wares, but the principles remain the same. You don't get lean by "following one rule: OBEY" and you don't gain muscle by eating X amount of Acai supplements or whatever the hell the gimmick of the week is. You gain muscle by eating a truckload of food and lifting a truckload of weight. End of story. Anybody that tells you otherwise is trying to sell you something.
 

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Yes, using examples of elite bodybuilders with elite genetics is always useful.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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