She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
underoath777 said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I don't know man. There would constantly be new and different women to bang. I can never see myself losing interest in movies, because I f'ing LOVE them. And they're always making new and interesting movies. I think it would be pretty damn cool to have the chance to plow through all sorts of different chicks spanning four centuries.horaholic said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think you'd benefit from getting some fangs, it'd work really well as an ice-breaker when approaching because NOTHING says "we'll get along just fine" Like sinking your teeth 4 inches into her neck. I'm glad you've seen the light and realised becoming a vampire is the true way to get into any girl's pants. Don Juan-Don Shwan, nothing screams super-suave like a pale faced, darkness dwelling bloodsucker!underoath777 said: