"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How would a dude move it on with this girl?

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Well first off, let's get this clear, she has a BF, I know but her BF doesn't go to this school so I really don't care. Now the girl gives me tons of interest, but if I were to ever touch this girl she'd resist. This therefore makes kinoing and escalating stuff with her very hard. But I know she's somewhat interested though. So I want to know what you guys think.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ElStud said:
Well first off, let's get this clear, she has a BF, I know but her BF doesn't go to this school so I really don't care. Now the girl gives me tons of interest, but if I were to ever touch this girl she'd resist. This therefore makes kinoing and escalating stuff with her very hard. But I know she's somewhat interested though. So I want to know what you guys think.
She isnt interested until you are removing her thong with your teeth. From what you've said here, she is a typical AW.
 

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What do you mean "if you were to touch her she'd resist?" You can't say that until you try and she shuts you down. If "if's" and "buts" were candy and nuts...well I don't remember the rest of the saying but just DO SOMETHING!!!!

"If" you have a pair that is...

...and remember if she ain't got that ring it don't mean a thing.
 

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You really think shes into you?
Generally she may be interested in you but if shes refusing to being touched there are only 2 possibilities
a) She doesnt want you.
b) She doesnt want you in school.

If you think you are ready to pull it off ask her out to a pub/disco/some cool place/ your home
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You want a girl who hasn't proven herself worthy of you? What's wrong with that I wonder. She wouldn't let you touch her? Well, then she's not worthy of you. NEXT!
 

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When will these kids learn? Its not about the chase, its about the amount you can attract.

Also its true what is already said above. Don't assume till you try.
 

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She isnt interested until you are removing her thong with your teeth. From what you've said here, she is a typical AW.
Nah, she can't really be an AW though, since most of the time the attentions of me.

Well I have sort of tried before and I got stuff like "Don't touch me!". But who knows, that was a while ago and the chick seems to be warming up now(She used to hate me, but now she talks to me, laughs at my joke and shows interest). I guess my fear is that if I try to escalate with her again, she'll resist. But she could just be uncomfortable for the fact that she doesn't know me that well and I haven't established rapport yet.
 

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Does everyone think that when a girl has a boyfriend but, acts interested in you she will jump on your d!ck? Not always, most the time they just want to make friends...

You guys are wasting time trying to fvck some guys girl or trying to steal her.
 

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the girl failed your biggest test - she rejected you when u touched her

thats all you need to know on whether she likes u or not

a girl that doesnt wanna be touched by you IS NOT INTERESTED

some guys are too thick headed to realize that and think it's a shyt test, when it actually ISNT
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ElStud said:
Nah, she can't really be an AW though, since most of the time the attentions of me.

Well I have sort of tried before and I got stuff like "Don't touch me!". But who knows, that was a while ago and the chick seems to be warming up now(She used to hate me, but now she talks to me, laughs at my joke and shows interest). I guess my fear is that if I try to escalate with her again, she'll resist. But she could just be uncomfortable for the fact that she doesn't know me that well and I haven't established rapport yet.
I don't know about you.. but if a girl ever told me not to touch her.. I'd never speak to her again.. My touch is a valuable commodity that is not to be wasted on those who are unappreciative.
 
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