"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How would a dude move it on with this girl?

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ElStud

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Well first off, let's get this clear, she has a BF, I know but her BF doesn't go to this school so I really don't care. Now the girl gives me tons of interest, but if I were to ever touch this girl she'd resist. This therefore makes kinoing and escalating stuff with her very hard. But I know she's somewhat interested though. So I want to know what you guys think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ElStud said:
Well first off, let's get this clear, she has a BF, I know but her BF doesn't go to this school so I really don't care. Now the girl gives me tons of interest, but if I were to ever touch this girl she'd resist. This therefore makes kinoing and escalating stuff with her very hard. But I know she's somewhat interested though. So I want to know what you guys think.
She isnt interested until you are removing her thong with your teeth. From what you've said here, she is a typical AW.
 

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What do you mean "if you were to touch her she'd resist?" You can't say that until you try and she shuts you down. If "if's" and "buts" were candy and nuts...well I don't remember the rest of the saying but just DO SOMETHING!!!!

"If" you have a pair that is...

...and remember if she ain't got that ring it don't mean a thing.
 

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You really think shes into you?
Generally she may be interested in you but if shes refusing to being touched there are only 2 possibilities
a) She doesnt want you.
b) She doesnt want you in school.

If you think you are ready to pull it off ask her out to a pub/disco/some cool place/ your home
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You want a girl who hasn't proven herself worthy of you? What's wrong with that I wonder. She wouldn't let you touch her? Well, then she's not worthy of you. NEXT!
 

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When will these kids learn? Its not about the chase, its about the amount you can attract.

Also its true what is already said above. Don't assume till you try.
 

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She isnt interested until you are removing her thong with your teeth. From what you've said here, she is a typical AW.
Nah, she can't really be an AW though, since most of the time the attentions of me.

Well I have sort of tried before and I got stuff like "Don't touch me!". But who knows, that was a while ago and the chick seems to be warming up now(She used to hate me, but now she talks to me, laughs at my joke and shows interest). I guess my fear is that if I try to escalate with her again, she'll resist. But she could just be uncomfortable for the fact that she doesn't know me that well and I haven't established rapport yet.
 

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Does everyone think that when a girl has a boyfriend but, acts interested in you she will jump on your d!ck? Not always, most the time they just want to make friends...

You guys are wasting time trying to fvck some guys girl or trying to steal her.
 

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the girl failed your biggest test - she rejected you when u touched her

thats all you need to know on whether she likes u or not

a girl that doesnt wanna be touched by you IS NOT INTERESTED

some guys are too thick headed to realize that and think it's a shyt test, when it actually ISNT
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ElStud said:
Nah, she can't really be an AW though, since most of the time the attentions of me.

Well I have sort of tried before and I got stuff like "Don't touch me!". But who knows, that was a while ago and the chick seems to be warming up now(She used to hate me, but now she talks to me, laughs at my joke and shows interest). I guess my fear is that if I try to escalate with her again, she'll resist. But she could just be uncomfortable for the fact that she doesn't know me that well and I haven't established rapport yet.
I don't know about you.. but if a girl ever told me not to touch her.. I'd never speak to her again.. My touch is a valuable commodity that is not to be wasted on those who are unappreciative.
 
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