women haze
Senior Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how would a Don Juan flip this situation? Doghouse diaries
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Simple. Accomplished in 2 frames.
"Should I cut my hair short?"
Atom Smasher: "No. I hate short hair on women. Don't do it."
Frame 2: Ignore
Frame 3: I'm already on another subject. Therefore, frames 3 through 16 cannot possibly happen in my world.
"Should I cut my hair short?"
Atom Smasher: "No. I hate short hair on women. Don't do it."
Frame 2: Ignore
Frame 3: I'm already on another subject. Therefore, frames 3 through 16 cannot possibly happen in my world.
Her: should I cut my hair?women haze said:
Me: you have your own mind.
Her: but I'm asking you?
Me: you already know what to do, you just want to hear it from someone else.
Her: so should I cut my hair?
Me: you're a full grown woman that can make decisions, but I like smelling your hair when we **** baby.