"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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On these board there's one thing I really get annoyed at, no I'm not talking about people who always try to tell others what they should do or the ones who are so afraid off anything different that they condemn it all. Making them so narrowminded you wouldn't get a nail through.

I'm talking about all these people who try to understand everything. Why women do this, why they do that, why they do respond like this. This may sound really important but it isn't. It's like newton and the common man, he explained the theory of gravity, everyone else took it for granted and just assumed it was there.

It's the same with us, it's not important to know why a woman react in some way, it's only important to know that they will react in this way. I don't like to think about why women do one thing, I just go with the flow and I feel how a woman will react if I do a thing. The feeling come with some experience. The thing with trying to understand how women works and building systems around those theories is that you pretty much mustn't get too emotionally involved. Newton, he would do experiements with gravity but the common man just assumed it was there and didn't think more off it. Understanding stuff like love, attraction, happiness or whatever is not the point off them, the point off them is to experience them. Just assume and go without thinking. So my point is, think less, feel more, go more after the gut.


Another thing I've noticed is that many people give up their own happiness when they look for girls, they do everything to please them and stuff like that. They don't think about what THEY get out off meeting a woman. I think the more advanced or natural a DJ get, the more he cares about the way he feels when he interact with women. No I'm not talking about being egoistic, I'm talking about requirements. One off them is he only interact with women if he feel he gets something out off it. All too many say it's a numbers game and take away many off the important parts off meeting women. Women are not numbers, they are human beings aswell as we are. If you only look at numbers and approach anything you find attractive then you might actually miss out on some really fine women in your hurry.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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interesting post!

Women are not numbers, they are human beings aswell as we are. If you only look at numbers and approach anything you find attractive then you might actually miss out on some really fine women in your hurry.

true .. to an extent
 

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I agree to some extent, but here's where it fails: when a woman is being cold with you, the gut instinct of a lot of men would be to try to make amends. Next thing you know, she's pulling this stuff all the time and you've just become a doormat.

At least by learning why they pull such games, we can avoid falling into that trap.
 

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i agree, some men take these blueprints on approaching women too serious and dont even have a life outside that. from now to eternity men will never fully understand women . so just live ur fuking lives.
 

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I think men do understand women by saying women are irrational. You can't logically explain what's irrrational, that's like trying to explain the logic behind a lunatic's actions lol. Although women are emotional, their responses can be predictable, so it helps to consider what a woman's responsen will be if you do XYZ and it helps to consider what her response means.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Although women are emotional, their responses can be predictable
Excellent observation

There is some variation depending on individual life experience but we can still generalise most behaviours and outcomes, otherwise the information on this board would be worthless


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If women were to be like men, they would cheat on us all the time.

women are soft, men are hard (haha true to the sex sense too.)

well some women are fugly though. like a man. ugly!!! and some men are very feminine so whatevers.
 
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