Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How women works

Ajax

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On these board there's one thing I really get annoyed at, no I'm not talking about people who always try to tell others what they should do or the ones who are so afraid off anything different that they condemn it all. Making them so narrowminded you wouldn't get a nail through.

I'm talking about all these people who try to understand everything. Why women do this, why they do that, why they do respond like this. This may sound really important but it isn't. It's like newton and the common man, he explained the theory of gravity, everyone else took it for granted and just assumed it was there.

It's the same with us, it's not important to know why a woman react in some way, it's only important to know that they will react in this way. I don't like to think about why women do one thing, I just go with the flow and I feel how a woman will react if I do a thing. The feeling come with some experience. The thing with trying to understand how women works and building systems around those theories is that you pretty much mustn't get too emotionally involved. Newton, he would do experiements with gravity but the common man just assumed it was there and didn't think more off it. Understanding stuff like love, attraction, happiness or whatever is not the point off them, the point off them is to experience them. Just assume and go without thinking. So my point is, think less, feel more, go more after the gut.


Another thing I've noticed is that many people give up their own happiness when they look for girls, they do everything to please them and stuff like that. They don't think about what THEY get out off meeting a woman. I think the more advanced or natural a DJ get, the more he cares about the way he feels when he interact with women. No I'm not talking about being egoistic, I'm talking about requirements. One off them is he only interact with women if he feel he gets something out off it. All too many say it's a numbers game and take away many off the important parts off meeting women. Women are not numbers, they are human beings aswell as we are. If you only look at numbers and approach anything you find attractive then you might actually miss out on some really fine women in your hurry.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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interesting post!

Women are not numbers, they are human beings aswell as we are. If you only look at numbers and approach anything you find attractive then you might actually miss out on some really fine women in your hurry.

true .. to an extent
 

Jariel

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I agree to some extent, but here's where it fails: when a woman is being cold with you, the gut instinct of a lot of men would be to try to make amends. Next thing you know, she's pulling this stuff all the time and you've just become a doormat.

At least by learning why they pull such games, we can avoid falling into that trap.
 

skeeloo

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i agree, some men take these blueprints on approaching women too serious and dont even have a life outside that. from now to eternity men will never fully understand women . so just live ur fuking lives.
 

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I think men do understand women by saying women are irrational. You can't logically explain what's irrrational, that's like trying to explain the logic behind a lunatic's actions lol. Although women are emotional, their responses can be predictable, so it helps to consider what a woman's responsen will be if you do XYZ and it helps to consider what her response means.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kaine

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Although women are emotional, their responses can be predictable
Excellent observation

There is some variation depending on individual life experience but we can still generalise most behaviours and outcomes, otherwise the information on this board would be worthless


Kaine
 

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If women were to be like men, they would cheat on us all the time.

women are soft, men are hard (haha true to the sex sense too.)

well some women are fugly though. like a man. ugly!!! and some men are very feminine so whatevers.
 
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