"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How will I be consistent?

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Last weekend I went clubbing, was dancing, saw a girl I thought was cute. Went straight up to her and started dancing with her, needless to say we flirted throughout the night she was in my arms.

Was in a club again last night, there was a girl dancing happily. I came up and planned to make a move, hesitated and within couple of seconds another guy went in. Well, he got the girl, they danced, flirt etc... That would have been me if I didn't hesitated because I knew she was open to approach but I chickened out!

I am too inconsistent, I don't know what I can do to be unfazed by any situation. I guess the answer is just keep trying, keep approaching.

Is there any mental exercise I can apply?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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remember this:


he who hesitates, masterbates.
 
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You need more testosterone in my opinion. LOL at the above answer.
 
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Just don't masturbate for 7 days and you'll get your testosterone to an acceptable level.

You'll see how you'll stop to hesitate.
 
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I think you guys are right, been lazy with doing weights for the last few weeks, need to start again to raise testosterone level. Thanks for pointing it out!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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