How will I be consistent?

[Htienvu]

Last weekend I went clubbing, was dancing, saw a girl I thought was cute. Went straight up to her and started dancing with her, needless to say we flirted throughout the night she was in my arms.

Was in a club again last night, there was a girl dancing happily. I came up and planned to make a move, hesitated and within couple of seconds another guy went in. Well, he got the girl, they danced, flirt etc... That would have been me if I didn't hesitated because I knew she was open to approach but I chickened out!

I am too inconsistent, I don't know what I can do to be unfazed by any situation. I guess the answer is just keep trying, keep approaching.

Is there any mental exercise I can apply?

 

[Chamber36]

remember this:


he who hesitates, masterbates.

 

[Groovy]

You need more testosterone in my opinion. LOL at the above answer.

 

[cupraikso]

Just don't masturbate for 7 days and you'll get your testosterone to an acceptable level.

You'll see how you'll stop to hesitate.

 

[Htienvu]

I think you guys are right, been lazy with doing weights for the last few weeks, need to start again to raise testosterone level. Thanks for pointing it out!