Ok, So I'm gonna skip past most of how I met this girl. I had a friend in town from out of state this weekend. She's cool, but we're just sorta friends, not close. Well, her sister ends up coming over and hanging out with us. This sister is a HB8 to me. In a couple more years, she could approach 9. We had a group of 4, and we went to a Bball game and then came back to my place and played games and had fun. It wasn't a double date, cause we met some other friends down at the game.
Another HB8.5 friend of mine who I would date, came down and met us for the bball game, and the new girl doesn't know it wasn't a date type thing with us, so my social proof or whatever the word is, "value", whatever, has to be through the roof with this new girl.
Ok so, I felt like I was really getting good eye contact from this girl throughout the evening. She had just me and her do a shot together. Then when I was looking for the liquor bottle to put the lid back on,she made this comment like "yea i always know where the liquor is at", and was looking up at me with these eyes like she wanted me.
Well, me and her are both lightweights. She ends up going and laying in my bed to rest for a bit. I ended up going in to talk to her, cause I wasn't sure if she was alright.
Basically, my friend had been hitting on her, a little too strong, and she wasn't into it, and she said she didn't like anyone hitting on her when she was drunk, she'd rather that happen when both parties are sober. I told her, that it was very important to me that she felt comfortable and if there was a problem, I'd take care of it.
She said, No, its no problem, and that if she didn't feel comfortable, then she wouldn't have been laying in my bed. (I took that as a good hint)
So, I ended up laying beside her, not right next to her, (cause I was toasted), and we talked for like a half hour. So, finally, when she was getting close to ready to get up and go home,
I told her, I thought she was a really cool girl, and I know we're both a little bit drunk right now, but I'd like to give you a call and take u out sometime. and she said yea, and smiled.
But I didn't get up and get her number, cause her sis walked in right then.
So, I facebooked her yesterday evening, and she added me like 2 hours later, but we havn't sent any messages.
Whats the best way to contact this girl and get her out with me? How long to wait till I message, what do I say? Do I just get her # from the sis who is my friend from out of state since the younger girl did say I could call her? I am thinking I need to go right to the source, and my only means then is through facebook.
Thoughts?
BTW, I'm 27, and this girl is 20.
Another HB8.5 friend of mine who I would date, came down and met us for the bball game, and the new girl doesn't know it wasn't a date type thing with us, so my social proof or whatever the word is, "value", whatever, has to be through the roof with this new girl.
Ok so, I felt like I was really getting good eye contact from this girl throughout the evening. She had just me and her do a shot together. Then when I was looking for the liquor bottle to put the lid back on,she made this comment like "yea i always know where the liquor is at", and was looking up at me with these eyes like she wanted me.
Well, me and her are both lightweights. She ends up going and laying in my bed to rest for a bit. I ended up going in to talk to her, cause I wasn't sure if she was alright.
Basically, my friend had been hitting on her, a little too strong, and she wasn't into it, and she said she didn't like anyone hitting on her when she was drunk, she'd rather that happen when both parties are sober. I told her, that it was very important to me that she felt comfortable and if there was a problem, I'd take care of it.
She said, No, its no problem, and that if she didn't feel comfortable, then she wouldn't have been laying in my bed. (I took that as a good hint)
So, I ended up laying beside her, not right next to her, (cause I was toasted), and we talked for like a half hour. So, finally, when she was getting close to ready to get up and go home,
I told her, I thought she was a really cool girl, and I know we're both a little bit drunk right now, but I'd like to give you a call and take u out sometime. and she said yea, and smiled.
But I didn't get up and get her number, cause her sis walked in right then.
So, I facebooked her yesterday evening, and she added me like 2 hours later, but we havn't sent any messages.
Whats the best way to contact this girl and get her out with me? How long to wait till I message, what do I say? Do I just get her # from the sis who is my friend from out of state since the younger girl did say I could call her? I am thinking I need to go right to the source, and my only means then is through facebook.
Thoughts?
BTW, I'm 27, and this girl is 20.
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