How well did I handle these women at the gym?

[sangheilios]

Decided to approach these 2 different hot latinas with fat assess that I see at my gym.

- 1st one She was sitting down on one of the benches so I went up to her when she was in between one of her sets. Said I didn't mean to interrupt her workout and then asked her what her name was. We talk for about 10 minutes before I let her get back to her workout. See her the next day, she sits on the mat not too far from me to do some stretching and when I go over she acts all excited. She tells me she was free later but when I ask for her number she admits she has a bf. I then say that if she is single I'd be interested and I get up and walk away. Next day she comes over to talk to me lol.

- Second one I walk up to this girl and ask her what her name is. We talk briefly but she is a bit awkward so I walk away. Next time I see her she is blatantly staring at me and smiling, I ignore it at first but she has been going out of her way to walk by me and several of my friends have told me they notice her checking me out all the time. Haven't spoken to her again yet but it seems like she would be open to it.

 

[longtail]

I believe I've mentioned this several times before: the gym is not an ideal place to meet women.

Go to places where people want to meet other people for networking, dating and hookups. The gym, not so much. Go to professional networking events, social mixers, bars, clubs, happy hours at restaurants, hotels. Eventually, you will find something that works for you.

You need to develop some adaptability instead of trying to squeeze blood out of a turnip.

 

[fanatic22]

I believe I've mentioned this several times before: the gym is not an ideal place to meet women.

Go to places where people want to meet other people for networking, dating and hookups. The gym, not so much. Go to professional networking events, social mixers, bars, clubs, happy hours at restaurants, hotels. Eventually, you will find something that works for you.

You need to develop some adaptability instead of trying to squeeze blood out of a turnip.

It’s like you didn’t read the post at all. The gym is a great place to meet women, as is anywhere at all really. You’re blowing opportunities with a close minded approach.

OP: great job, keep it up.

 

[redskinsfan92]

1st one probably does have a bf

 

[sangheilios]

1st one probably does have a bf

That's pretty obvious, I just need to make sure not to expect anything to happen.

 

[sazc]

I agree, great job, excellent example for approaching:

say hello, chat for a short bit, tell them you will let them get back to their work out, see how they behave next time, are they displaying interest.

again, good job!

 

[marmel75]

That's pretty obvious, I just need to make sure not to expect anything to happen.

Next time a woman tells you she has a boyfriend just deadpan "Oh thats cool, I'm not the jealous type" with a smirk and just continue with the convo or getting her info.

Sometimes its just done to see if you still will go for what you want or not.

 

[Chamber36]

Next time a woman tells you she has a boyfriend just deadpan "Oh thats cool, I'm not the jealous type" with a smirk and just continue with the convo or getting her info.

Sometimes its just done to see if you still will go for what you want or not.

In my opinion he should have not asked for the number immediately but set up a plan to meet after the gym since she out-of-the-blue mentioned she was free (at least if OP was free also).

The number is perceived as somewhat of a formality and it's more a matter of autistic box-checking in a lot of instances than it is a part of seduction. Things should be spontaneous. They want to be overpowered guys. It has to be your fault. You are the a$$hole. Remember that.

 

[longtail]

It’s like you didn’t read the post at all. The gym is a great place to meet women, as is anywhere at all really. You’re blowing opportunities with a close minded approach.

OP: great job, keep it up.

How many women have you approached at the gym? How many converted to lays?

 

[Bokanovsky]

If a woman acts awkward, it probably means that she's shy. That's not necessarily a bad thing. I'd talk to girl #2 again. Girl #1 is likely an attention *****.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

At 30, I run mostly flash game.

Blow me or blow me out. **** me or **** off.

Dont linger.

Eye contact = IOIs

Just break rapport. Open.

Wuddup/hey/sup/whatever, anything will suffice. Just a quick, get #, eject regardless. See again, rapid fire, and go lift.

If you got ten game, pull ASAP. If you have wackkk game, are socially inept, autistic or retardddddddd, proceed with caution.

In before rapey accusations lol

High interest, chick won't leave, will throw on hazard lights on car, park near you, wont ho away etc.

Smash. Otherwise, re approach. When in doubt, take #, fb, acquire ig. I prefer #.

Drop invite. Smash. Game is compliance. You lead. She follows or next.

 

[fanatic22]

How many women have you approached at the gym? How many converted to lays?

Approached one, went on a couple dates but lost interest before sleeping with her. I also met two outside of the gym who are members of my gym, slept with one/she’s now a plate, the other shows strong IOIs but I’m not interested. I’m 100% certain that if I approached the other two at the gym they would’ve reciprocated.

There are a few hotties at my gym but I’m not in a rush, I had 6 plates that I cut to 2 because I’m looking for a new job.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Approached one, went on a couple dates but lost interest before sleeping with her. I also met two outside of the gym who are members of my gym, slept with one/she’s now a plate, the other shows strong IOIs but I’m not interested. I’m 100% certain that if I approached the other two at the gym they would’ve reciprocated.

There are a few hotties at my gym but I’m not in a rush, I had 6 plates that I cut to 2 because I’m looking for a new job.

The bytches were eating into your time? Reducing your focus? Which ones did you keep and why?

 

[fanatic22]

The bytches were eating into your time? Reducing your focus? Which ones did you keep and why?

Yeah, I just found that I had more limited time (maybe 2 nights per week) and that I would rather spend that time with my 2 favorites than all 6. I kept the one I was most attracted to and the one whose company I enjoyed the most. (The second one is invited over a little earlier in the night, lol.)

 

[sangheilios]

If a woman acts awkward, it probably means that she's shy. That's not necessarily a bad thing. I'd talk to girl #2 again. Girl #1 is likely an attention *****.

Both girls get a lot of attention from guys but they shoot them down very quickly, I paid attention before approaching them. Girl #2 doesn't really give me attention ***** vibes because she actively diacourages other guys but I have been a bit hesitant because of how it went with other women I have met at the gym.