"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How we spot abandonment issues

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There is this chick I've been with 6 months now, and I do wonder if I would need more time to spot.
But, like she's in a month that is obsessed by me, it's really all over me, but I'm not doing anything special.

This actually makes me think about a friend relationship with his wife that have those issues, (and she may also be a cluster b), that frequently disconnect emotionally from him, for super attractive men she encounter in her life, but then, after the crush is over, she come back obsessed by him.
In the meanwhile, He did nothing to improve something of himself to justify the result, so her behaviour it's simply something that happen to her.

So How do you guys actually understand if a woman has abandonment issues, wheter that be a fresh relationship or just a long one you're already in?

What do i mean with abandonment issues.. well that she actually behave in a way she is super clingy, that she is too much into you, and she "forgets" about her own life just because of you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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He ran off, died, or molested her.
Nothing of those.
From what I do understand He was an absent figure, She had to "chase" him, then, when they were close, He would lovebomb her with some traveling, attention, validation, etc and then, turn back focus to his career. Over and over
 
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