"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How we spot abandonment issues

jhonny9546

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There is this chick I've been with 6 months now, and I do wonder if I would need more time to spot.
But, like she's in a month that is obsessed by me, it's really all over me, but I'm not doing anything special.

This actually makes me think about a friend relationship with his wife that have those issues, (and she may also be a cluster b), that frequently disconnect emotionally from him, for super attractive men she encounter in her life, but then, after the crush is over, she come back obsessed by him.
In the meanwhile, He did nothing to improve something of himself to justify the result, so her behaviour it's simply something that happen to her.

So How do you guys actually understand if a woman has abandonment issues, wheter that be a fresh relationship or just a long one you're already in?

What do i mean with abandonment issues.. well that she actually behave in a way she is super clingy, that she is too much into you, and she "forgets" about her own life just because of you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He ran off, died, or molested her.
Nothing of those.
From what I do understand He was an absent figure, She had to "chase" him, then, when they were close, He would lovebomb her with some traveling, attention, validation, etc and then, turn back focus to his career. Over and over
 
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