"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How we spot abandonment issues

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There is this chick I've been with 6 months now, and I do wonder if I would need more time to spot.
But, like she's in a month that is obsessed by me, it's really all over me, but I'm not doing anything special.

This actually makes me think about a friend relationship with his wife that have those issues, (and she may also be a cluster b), that frequently disconnect emotionally from him, for super attractive men she encounter in her life, but then, after the crush is over, she come back obsessed by him.
In the meanwhile, He did nothing to improve something of himself to justify the result, so her behaviour it's simply something that happen to her.

So How do you guys actually understand if a woman has abandonment issues, wheter that be a fresh relationship or just a long one you're already in?

What do i mean with abandonment issues.. well that she actually behave in a way she is super clingy, that she is too much into you, and she "forgets" about her own life just because of you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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He ran off, died, or molested her.
Nothing of those.
From what I do understand He was an absent figure, She had to "chase" him, then, when they were close, He would lovebomb her with some traveling, attention, validation, etc and then, turn back focus to his career. Over and over
 
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