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Don Juan
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I think a famous psychologist said that how we resolve towards sex and violence greatly affects our personality.
Anyone know who said that?
Would you agree with it?
I sure would.
Until recently I tolerated mistreatment from others (I would have used fear of confrontation as an excuse but in reality I probably thought that I simply deserved the mistreatment).
In the past couple of years I have discovered that virtually all bullies have a nose for weakness/size you up before bullying and that proactive confidence is the best way to not be bullied (the rare bullies that I still do face fold very fast when they realize that I really will not tolerate it).
Until recently I would have used being shy as an excuse for not getting women. Reality: deep down I probably simply thought that I did not deserve them
My experience has been that sexual confidence has been congruent with overall confidence/loosing the fear of confrontation.
Anyone know who said that?
Would you agree with it?
I sure would.
Until recently I tolerated mistreatment from others (I would have used fear of confrontation as an excuse but in reality I probably thought that I simply deserved the mistreatment).
In the past couple of years I have discovered that virtually all bullies have a nose for weakness/size you up before bullying and that proactive confidence is the best way to not be bullied (the rare bullies that I still do face fold very fast when they realize that I really will not tolerate it).
Until recently I would have used being shy as an excuse for not getting women. Reality: deep down I probably simply thought that I did not deserve them
My experience has been that sexual confidence has been congruent with overall confidence/loosing the fear of confrontation.