"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HOW!!!?!?!?!?!! Uni problem

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donjuan87

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I want to become better at being a don juan, but I don't know how.

I go to a small uni (less than 2000 students) and I have a fairly strong track record with girls, but reputations follow you. If I try new things and "put myself out there", one bad impression can screw you over for every girl on campus (plus the many of the 20,000 other college girls in my city). It's kind of intimidating. The reason I ask is because so I want to really break out of the rest of the reminants of the shell that used to define me, but it is hard because of the restrictive nature of a small school. It seems like I am being held back. It sucks!

Help!

p.s. there are a few guys that run in my circle that don't like me because they have pursued girls that have gone home with me, so they like to sabotage me when they get that chance (I can think of 2 guys that did it to me tonight)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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theunflushables

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I see you are from Chicago, are you going to school in Chicago? Or is it somewhere in a small town isolated from everyone and everything? If you're downtown, fvck it do what you want, there are so many women in the city, why limit yourself to your school?

If its out in the middle of nowhere, fvck it, do what you want you'd be showing more confidence by putting yourself out there than you would be if you held back from your edge and played it safe.
 
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