"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HOW!!!?!?!?!?!! Uni problem

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donjuan87

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I want to become better at being a don juan, but I don't know how.

I go to a small uni (less than 2000 students) and I have a fairly strong track record with girls, but reputations follow you. If I try new things and "put myself out there", one bad impression can screw you over for every girl on campus (plus the many of the 20,000 other college girls in my city). It's kind of intimidating. The reason I ask is because so I want to really break out of the rest of the reminants of the shell that used to define me, but it is hard because of the restrictive nature of a small school. It seems like I am being held back. It sucks!

Help!

p.s. there are a few guys that run in my circle that don't like me because they have pursued girls that have gone home with me, so they like to sabotage me when they get that chance (I can think of 2 guys that did it to me tonight)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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theunflushables

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I see you are from Chicago, are you going to school in Chicago? Or is it somewhere in a small town isolated from everyone and everything? If you're downtown, fvck it do what you want, there are so many women in the city, why limit yourself to your school?

If its out in the middle of nowhere, fvck it, do what you want you'd be showing more confidence by putting yourself out there than you would be if you held back from your edge and played it safe.
 
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