"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to's for me please?

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Alright, I'm tired of trying to get to know a girl, but then i keep putting her on a pedastal. Ive been trying to get to know her, but shes very flirty kinda chick, and i keep thinking in my head: "I don't like her i dont like her." Yet I do, and I can't fool myself into thinking that. (Once you know how placebo works... you can never fool yourself into believing something else.)

Any advice on:

-getting to know a girl without sounding lame
-learn to talk and not be speechless when they dress realllly hottt
-one on one "date" (mall perhaps?)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91527
^^^ is a previous post i did about it. no one looked cuz it was long (i guess... not really)^^^
its pretty much the history of it.





oh yeah, i kinda wanna do a swapping of gifts with her within a budget. how do i go abotu saying that. since basically my family isnt have xmas this year, i want a me and somebody (a girl, really) to atleast have something special to swap.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok dude. Look.. in order not to feel lame abt getting to know the girl, u gotta not feel lame. drill it into ur head that u're jz making friends. keep that mindset and treat her like a normal person. i believe the best way not to get speechless is to rehearse how u are going to do in over and over in ur mind. and last but not least, just say hi! yeah dont hesitate too much when u are going to approach her. remember, he wont hesitates, masturbates.

hope that helped
 
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