"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to's for me please?

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Alright, I'm tired of trying to get to know a girl, but then i keep putting her on a pedastal. Ive been trying to get to know her, but shes very flirty kinda chick, and i keep thinking in my head: "I don't like her i dont like her." Yet I do, and I can't fool myself into thinking that. (Once you know how placebo works... you can never fool yourself into believing something else.)

Any advice on:

-getting to know a girl without sounding lame
-learn to talk and not be speechless when they dress realllly hottt
-one on one "date" (mall perhaps?)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91527
^^^ is a previous post i did about it. no one looked cuz it was long (i guess... not really)^^^
its pretty much the history of it.





oh yeah, i kinda wanna do a swapping of gifts with her within a budget. how do i go abotu saying that. since basically my family isnt have xmas this year, i want a me and somebody (a girl, really) to atleast have something special to swap.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok dude. Look.. in order not to feel lame abt getting to know the girl, u gotta not feel lame. drill it into ur head that u're jz making friends. keep that mindset and treat her like a normal person. i believe the best way not to get speechless is to rehearse how u are going to do in over and over in ur mind. and last but not least, just say hi! yeah dont hesitate too much when u are going to approach her. remember, he wont hesitates, masturbates.

hope that helped
 
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